Alright, this might take a while. There's this guy, that just won't leave me alone. He keeps coming up to me for hugs, and even though I have said no God knows how many times, he just won't stop. And then, he started saying he loved me.

Now the thing is, I just don't like him. Even though he knows I have a boyfriend, he keeps saying he loves me. And once, and I haven't even told my boyfriend this, my "stalker" said he would kill him, just to have me.

I've told the teachers at my school, and they told him to stop it, does he? No he does not.

Plus, I'm a Christian, and he's a Satanist. School's starting again tomorow, and I'm actually quite scared with what he will do.

I just want him to stop, but he just won't leave me alone.

Well...not much we can do about it, really. Tell the school again and tell them exactly what he is and has been doing. If it doesn't stop, tell your parents and try to get the school to inform his parents. It is rather creepy how he is acting, so staying away from him is your main priority. Just try to make sure people around you know what is going on so they can defend you if need be. I simply suggest informing people with power and they SHOULD do something about it.

That the thing though, I've told the school, I've told the deputy head, I've told my head of year, and once he even got after-school detention. But he still didn't stop.

And, all my friends are scared of him, he's honestly crazy enough to bring one of his katanas in, that his dad buys. And his dad's crazy enough.

Then what do you suppose you do? Is it serious enough to get the police involved considering he has threatened to kill someone?

You do what you need to do to feel comfortable and to stay away from this creep. You can't do anything else other than tell people about him and they should hopefully remove him from anywhere you need to go. If it is really that bad, telling the police may not be a bad idea.

I don't think the police would take him seriously, he's wiggled out of trouble from the police before. And the person he's threatened to kill is on the other side of an ocean, and he has no idea where the person lives.

It isn't serious to get the police involved I think, but no matter what I say or do, no matter how far on the other side of the school I go, he keeps following me.

well from what ive read firstly im really sorry your going through this is must be really hard and frightening.. but when you told your parents what did they say? and i agree with Scott on the idea that for now the best thing you can do is inform as many people who can help you as you can.. and if things do get really bad even if they might not take you seriously informing the police might not be a bad idea at least you have the chance to see if they can help you.. and this may sound extreme and not my place to say but in the worse situation you can think about ,if you want to, changing school even.. but thats if things get really bad.. but hopefully things can get sorted out before you have to resort to something so drastic.. but again for now try telling the police.. and again my prayers are with you and i hope you can sort things out

Thank you, really.

My parents said to ignore him, but I can't when sometimes he sneaks up on me and hugs me. I wouldn't even think of leaving school, I'm starting coursework this year, so it isn't really good if I left now.

And for the police thing, if it gets any worse I will. (But then I'm scared he'll say about how much I'd hit him when he dared to put a death wish on the man I love, I was so full of anger)

for the police im sure that after they hear whats hes doing to you and what hes threatening to do they find your actions perfectly justified. Who wouldnt react that way is someone said something like that!? this guy seems really sick.. and as for ignoring him.. well like you said it must be pretty hard to do when hes doing stuff like that and i dont think that will make a person as sick as him stop doing what hes doing to you but again i know i may sound repetitive saying this again and this may not help much but the only thing i can tell you is to do what your doing and planning to do, inform as many people as you can and the police.. and im really shocked that your school head hasnt taken more drastic measures to stop him i really hope that this year they do much more to help you

This guy just seems like the sort who is seeking a rise out of you. I know plenty of stupid guys who act like that. As to the "kill" thing I really do doubt he has the guts to follow through with such assinine plan. As the others said, bring it up to the school authorities, your parents, and the police if need be.

And why drag religion into this? So what if he is a satanist? People believe in what ever they want. Be it nonsense or logic. I'm friends with christian, jew, wicca, atheist, and even one satanist. Bringing up his faith is pointless. (I'm an atheist so religion stuff really gets me)

I think what she meant by that comment Neko is that he might do something terrible to her. I don't think she was trying to drag anyone's religion into this.

Have you considered keeping a diary? If his behaviour is really that bad then a good idea is to buy a journal and record all the creepy and inappropriate things he says and/or does as well as any threats he makes to you or anyone close to you, and after some time you could gather enough to force the authorities to see that he's in need of a harrasment charge, or at least a serious warning. Either way, it'll get their attention.

Anyway, everyone else here's given you very solid advice so far. Keep people informed and if he doesn't stop, keep complaining. I agree with Neko that right now he seems to be all smoke and no fire (just being a jerk for the sake of it) so there's no need to be so worried, but as you're the one who knows him it's for you to judge - he could well be worse than what I'm imagining. My best advice would be to be very firm with him (that you don't and never will feel the same way and you want him to leave you alone) but tread carefully if he really frightens you and try not to let him intimidate you or make you vulnerable, so keep your friends and/or bf around you should you have to lay down the law. And again, if he still shows no sign of stopping, start recording everything that happens between you.

I'm really sorry that he's ruining a new school year for you, and I really hope this creep learns to take a hint and leave you alone. Just remember that there are lots of people who are there for you, both here and IRL, so there's no need to feel alone. :huggle:

I'm friends with a lot of Satanists, it just that he once told me he would kill as many people as he could before he went to hell. So I took him seriously, as much as I didn't really want to.

Thank you everyone, you've made me feel a bit happier now.

I hope school went well for you today!!! and that he didnt ruin it for you and yea were always here for you whatever happens as well as im sure your friends are so if you ever need people to talk to were here!!

Here is what you can do.

!. report to the police that you have a stalker threatening to kill your friends.

2. Let the school bored know that you have a stalker and you want something done about it, or you'll report it to the school board.

3. Hire body guards to follow you around for protection.

4. Continue to tell him no, and run away if you must.

5. If hes following you make sure that you stay around a lot of people so he can't, A: hurt you, B: kidnap you, or C: something worse, call a ride and run.

6. Ask your friends for help, if their your friends they will want to keep you safe.

those are things you should do in order...and probably find a really safe place to stay, learn how to defend yourself, and learn the art of sneaking. You might wanna carry some gear with you for protection. Pepper spray, a tazer, brass knuckles, anything that you can use to protect yourself from harm.

Otherwise if all else fails, call me Ill come to your school and be a body guard for awhile, I dont start school till January so I have some free to help people out.

I really hope things get better, theres nothing worse than creepy kids following and harassing you....at least he hasn't you online or here.

illwaitforever1, It must be hard for you in your shoes right now. Being a Christian contrasting to that guy who has some bad intentions to you really is frightening, since God is the total opposite of Satan. But don't let it keep you down. I seriously recommend you for keeping your security tight-don't let yourself be alone at times, and open this up to your friends, they would try to help you. :) And I agree on TidusBlankety's advices. Regarding your faith, you can just pray for your safety and hope things would get better. :huggle:

Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee. ~Deuteronomy 3:16

a good friend here sent me this one a while back i think it helps alot

Alright, he's stopped, slightly. He still comes for hugs, but when I say no, he walks away now. Plus I had a nice rant at him.

Thank you so much, everyone!

ahh im really glad he stopped and your welcome !! were always here for our fellow Cloriths in their time of need! :P

Yeah where always here, just remember...

When in doubt...post it on the internet. They'll help you out.

That happened to me, too, like, 2 years ago. Unfortunately, where I live, there are no laws against stalking. I just cut all ties with him, like, I quit my job where he met me, changed my mobile phone number, and blocked him from my YM and all other online means for communication.

But luckily, he stopped already. Good for you. ^_^' I just hate boys who are like that.

That's great for you.
Are you sure that he's a Satanist? People often misread people, misunderstand them. Well, it's great that he stopped, anyway.

Thank you Sky Strife for bumping this back up.

He's started again. He's not Satanist anymore, but says he now believes in God. But he was, he told me he was.

So here we go.

Whenever I'm walking, he'll grab my hand. He'll tickle me, and sometimes touch my backside. Now I just hate that, just hate it. And he's started with "I love you" again.

I've told my teachers again, and he stopped for a while, but then he began again. He's even been excluded for it. But the teachers said it's not a matter for the police, since he's not coming to my house or anything.

Need help again guys.

I would have suggested a restraining order, but if he's not coming to your house or anything maybe a restraining order is a bit too much. Just keep on following everyone's advice on here. Also, instead of telling the teacher you could try telling your counselor or the principal if you haven't tried that already.

Good luck!

Tell your teachers they're stupid. If you feel that the police need to be involved, then they do need to be involved. It doesn't matter if it's holding hands, tickling, or any other type of physically harmless acts, the fact that you don't like it makes it sexual harassment. And (at least where I live) any type of forceful touching, grabbing, hugging or kissing is considered sexual harassment and is punishable by law.

Here's the thing: If he's touching you when you don't want him to, that's sexual abuse. Go to your principle, and if you use the words "sexual abuse" they'll take your problem much more seriously.

Sorry that it is happening to you. You should get a restraining order against him and tell the police he's doing sexual harrassment. That may work, I hope. Wish I lived in your area, if I did I'd rearrange his face. :huggle:

Sefie and MistaCloudStrife are completely right on this one, that is sexual harassment.. and it is a matter for the police to handle for now going to your principle is the first step and hopefully something can be done about it with just that... and as everyone said use the words sexual harassment.. talking to this sicko getting anything done and letting things slide on by as the teachers have done also have proven to be ineffective so the school or whoever needs to start taking more drastic measures.. if things get really bad again go to the police.. hang in there Twinny!!!