Title: Are They My Friends?
Description: A teenage trouble...
illwaitforever1 - July 3, 2007 07:03 PM (GMT)
My best friend isn't coming to school, and I haven't got anyone to partner up with when we're doing teamwork. My so called "friends" keep leaving me behind, and one of them has become snappy towards me, I asked her what was wrong, and she told me to f off.
So insted of being on my own, I went off with some lad friends of mine, now they've all started saying I like one of them, only because we both like games, and he's also a Clerith. Thing is, I only like him as a friend, but no matter how many times I tell them, they carry on saying I do fancy him.
I know this happens all the time, and is a typical teenage problem, but it's really getting me down. Can any of you give me advice?
lenne - July 4, 2007 02:08 AM (GMT)
yeah, its okay...things like that always happens
Dont worry it will get better soon, I just suggest that you hang on for a bit more.
Tenshi_Aerith - July 4, 2007 02:32 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (illwaitforever1 @ Jul 3 2007, 03:03 PM) |
My best friend isn't coming to school, and I haven't got anyone to partner up with when we're doing teamwork. My so called "friends" keep leaving me behind, and one of them has become snappy towards me, I asked her what was wrong, and she told me to f off.
So insted of being on my own, I went off with some lad friends of mine, now they've all started saying I like one of them, only because we both like games, and he's also a Clerith. Thing is, I only like him as a friend, but no matter how many times I tell them, they carry on saying I do fancy him.
I know this happens all the time, and is a typical teenage problem, but it's really getting me down. Can any of you give me advice? |
The best thing is to first pick out which ones it is that's treating you badly and think over what exactly have they done. If you can see yourself forgiving them and them being nice and treating you like there suppose to then keep them if not throw them away there not worth your time or your kindess let alone your breath. A real friends in the end will come back to you and appologize for passed mistakes and not having you ask for forgiveness when you haven't done anything. So if it precisists then I really would get rid of them it'll save you alot of heart ache later trust me. As far as them thinking you fancy one of your guy friends, should it matter to you if they think that? You know the situation and next time they say somthing like that all you should say is "I'm sorry you choose to believe something like that about me and my "FRIEND" that happens to not be truthful" And then walk away don't say anymore people who are watching from the background will hear you and feel your the better person and in the end in their subconcious mind will know your not with him, and your being honest with them.
Mokuren - July 4, 2007 03:16 PM (GMT)
Don't worry I know how you feel. All of the friends I hang out with just don't want anything to do with me the moment they find one of their closest friends they just leave me behind like I was never there. So yeah don't worry I know what it is like to have all your friends single you out. Just those friends who are bad to you just pretend like you never even had a friendship with them. It'll help you get over the whole thing.
xx-Forever-Aerith-xx - July 4, 2007 05:13 PM (GMT)
Oh Yeah i've had "Friends" like that before. All i did was ignored them. if i were you just stick with the people you're hanging around with and if people say you fancy one of them just shrug it off. You know you don't and thats all that matters, right? besides if you enjoy hanging around with someone you have stuff in common with things that people say shouldn't really matter. If this was stupid ignore me :D
xx
well hope it all gets better
Enima - August 3, 2007 05:41 AM (GMT)
Don't worry so much about it.
It will pass and we all go through it, even now. If they are like that , then they may not be your true friends. Or, they are just jealous. you'll never know till you ask. If they still push you away or go on babbling, it's their loss.
all will go well in time :huggle: