I can not stand him anymore. He's always yelling at me and then tries to pay me off with video games. He always abandons me for women and drinking and I'm sick of putting up with it. He calls me an infant yet he has the mentality of a five year old. He disses all of my friends, and when I was ten, had sex with some chick I don't know in the other room, next to the one I was sleeping in and I caught them in the act. He even tells me he hates me and doesn't care about me, and blames me for all the bad shit in his life. He's always cursing out my mother behind her back to me even though mom has treated him really well even though they're divorced. He also dissed me on being bi-sexual and says if I date any girls he's gonna disown me. I live with my mom and she is more accepting and loves me, but everytime I visit him I feel like I'm mentally breaking down. I just can't stand this anymore. Please give me advice on what to do...

I'm so sorry, one of the best things I can give you is never give up hope. You have people who care about you and think the polar opposite of what your father thinks of you. Just have hope and hold on to it and never let go things will get better for you I know they will. Remember just no matter how terrible he can be just remember they're people who care and if they could would tell your father that he has no right to mistreat you and should go down below.

thanks BMD... I really needed to hear that right now. he's not in the house right now, so it's really quiet. i've been miserable this whole vacation cause i HAD to spend it with him. he wouldn't let me hang out with any of my friends....

Wow he's really depressed and insane! I'm sorry to talk about your father like that, but really he is. Do you know how did he got so drunk often? Just try not to get in his way, and if you still want to help him to be a better dad, maybe you should know how did he got like that, even though he says that he hates you and everything, you're still his daughter and that won't change. :huggle: But really, if you can't even do a thing, maybe trying to not get his way may just help you avoide his loud outbursts and crap. :P Sorry, but that's what I can only give. Oh, and btw, Happy New Year!!!

Happy New Year to you too! He's not drunk often at all with me in the house, but when he does it gets bad. I tend to avoid him. But I just want him to be my dad, you know? I want a real father who loves me. Instead I got someone who tells me he doesn't care...