Title: Please Vote
Description: On Keeping Cloti's Out
Anastar - December 28, 2004 05:48 PM (GMT)
The last two Cloti's in here were griping that we don't allow people freedom of expression in this forum by banning Cloti's who come in here to argue.
The way I see it is that this is a CloudxAerith forum intended for those who love the CloudxAerith pairing. That means that you join the forum if you like the couple, not if you dislike the couple. The Love Triangle can be debated on many forums, so it's not like people who want to debate it don't have the opportunity to debate it. CloudxAerith people basically have noplace but the Devotion thread at AC.net where they can talk about the couple they love without harassment, flaming, bashing, and interference from Cloti's who try to jump down your throat the minute you say you love CloudxAerith and then try to "prove you wrong". On other forums, we are not allowed to state our beliefs without continuous harassment. If we allow Cloti's in here, we will have topics about what they think happened under the Highwind, how Cloud and Tifa must be making babies together in AC, constant arguing, and constant harassment.
So, do members want Cloti's here? Or should the forum staff continue banning Cloti's who argue against our belief that CloudxAerith are the true couple of FFVII? (That includes those who falsely claim to believe that CloudxAerith is the true couple of FFVII just in order to get access to this forum - if we have proof of them arguing against it on other forums, we will ban them here, too.)
So far, the voting stands at ten members against letting Cloti's in (Anastar, FF_Goddess, Sefie, Seii_Monogatari, Mira, Hopeful Angel, Cloud Gainsborough, Shrouded Light, slowerthanaverage, zhakeena), and zero members for letting Cloti's in. I'd like to hear what more members think of this.
I haven't set this up as a poll because I want to hear people's opinions rather than just seeing a Yes or No vote. If you want to keep them out or if you'd like to let them in, I'd like to know why.
And thank you. :rolleyes:
Sefie - December 28, 2004 05:58 PM (GMT)
Oh, *Just came from the venting forum* you already did. Well alrighty then!
My vote's to keep them OUT. We get enough of them in other forums, and they even raid our forum just to annoy us. We don't need to hear their debates, because this is a CLERIS forum. It's a nice little safe haven where one can post a picture of Cloud and Aeris and NOT get flamed mercilessly. It's somewhere we can just be silly and enjoy our favorite couple. There's no point and no reason to let CloTi's in
darkslavechaos - December 28, 2004 06:52 PM (GMT)
They mainly come here to make trouble, so I have to say 'OUT'
kyra_leonheart - December 28, 2004 06:56 PM (GMT)
Keep them out!!! That just proves that they like to fight (could that be because they know that their arguments are worthless ^_^ so they try to convince us by force). This is a Cleris sacred place, which means 100% clotis free!!!!
Eternity-Knight - December 28, 2004 07:42 PM (GMT)
Keep them OUT! All the Cloti's want to do is cause trouble and flame everyone.
Anastar - December 28, 2004 09:31 PM (GMT)
The score so far:
13 members for keeping Cloti's out of the forum
0 members for letting Cloti's into the forum
Thanks, everyone - keep the votes coming! I want to see that we have a consensus among the majority here. :rolleyes:
Cloudsgirl - December 29, 2004 01:07 AM (GMT)
I say they have to go. All they do is stir the pot.
Real_Emotion - December 29, 2004 02:11 AM (GMT)
KEEP THEM OUT!!!! PLEASE!!!
Clotis just pollute the air here in our pretty pink forum. All they do is start trouble and act like immature jerkoffs.
Seii Monogatari - December 29, 2004 10:53 AM (GMT)
Already voted, but I say out. Clotis barge in and try to be funny, or try to convince us that Cleris is stupid. They tell us we have no lives while simultaneously stalking our members from forum to forum. If we want to debate, I say let's do it at SSF, Ac.net or elsewhere, not here. ;)
~Fury Brand~ - December 29, 2004 11:21 AM (GMT)
Ah so you went ahead and make a thread in announcements about it Aly, thank you :)
I started writing this the other day and was going to post it today in the Venting forum but since this thread is here now I'll post it here instead *^_^*
| QUOTE |
Eh o_o Well I stated elsewhere before that I would not post in this section of the board out of respect for some Cloti friends just as I wouldn't post in Anti Cleris out of respect for my Cleris friends and not only for those reasons but because both Tifa and Aerith are both amongst my favourite characters so I don't harbour any deeply negative emotions against either of them. However ... desperate times call for desperate measures? :unsure: So even though I've posted I hope people will understand :)
Now I don't expect my vote to change anything but I will make it anyway even if it's only a symbolic vote, one that even if it changes nothing still has at least the chance of being seen and heard and I believe that even a chance is better than nothing :)
I vote to let the Clotis in. Why? My reason why is because I believe everybody deserves chances and although it might be hard for some people to believe some people do take and use their chances. I took the thin strand that was the offer of acceptance, even of friendship in some cases, from both Cleris and Clotis and I held onto it for all it was worth and now I feel that in some places that bond is stronger than a strand. How did it grow stronger? How does it continue to grow? Well I like to think I know how but I have no way of knowing for certain. I don't have that kind of power ;) I like to think though that I'm able to get along with both Cleris and Clotis because I don't treat either of them like the enemy. I treat all of them like human beings because in the end that's what they are overall. Their whole existence is not just Cleris or Cloti. There is so much more to each and every human being than that. When you think of everybody of human beings, you remember you're a human being too, you remember you have thoughts, dreams, feelings, emotions ... well so do they. Your feelings can get hurt but so can theirs. They have feelings, they have the ability to smile, to laugh, to be happy or sad, to get hurt and more. You might be hurt by their words but maybe they will be hurt by your words too. Then there is a question to asked. The question is do you want people to be hurt by your words, do you want to cause pain? Of course there are those who don't know what they are doing, that don't mean it but I think it's different when you know. Even the fact that it might happen is enough to stop and make some people think. I was one of them. I asked myself how I wanted to be treated and the answer was I wanted to be treated as a human being not as a monster like so many and Cleris seem to treat each other as. I wanted to be receive nice words not hurtful words so I gave out nice words. It's likely that if I'd given harsh words I'd have received harsh words in return.
Now the Cleris and Clotis often mentioned by each side are also human beings. Rah Seh is a human being, she has other interests apart from Cloti and a life offline and life gives her hardships like many of us, I've read details of her life which I will not mention out of respect but suffice to say she feels pain too. Clotis Anastar is a human being too, she has hopes and dreams and she has a right to them and she has feelings too. Anastar is perfectly capable of being a very nice and friendly person and has been to many people, myself included :) Yes she goes on the defensive sometimes. What do you expect her to do? It's natural for people to defend themselves when being attacked. This goes for Clotis under verbal assault too. It doesn't make Anastar or anyone else monsters it just makes them human. Not even bad humans because if so then an awful lot of us are that way. What did Anastar ever do to you Clotis that target her before the bombardment of personal insults against her began? She gave her own opinion on the love triangle. That’s all. Maybe she challenged your own beliefs but instead of insulting her you could have just listened to her or even just went away if her opinion bothered you so much. You didn’t have to drop your own belief in favour of hers, everyone has a right to their own beliefs but you could have been civil about it J Instead people insulted her and continued to insult her, taking it to such lengths as mocking her signatures, mocking her by pretending to be her at other forums and registering at her forums causing trouble for her and other members. You did all this to a human being, a person. Then Anastar began to change, she became more and more defensive, she became less friendly and more harsh to certain people. Unfortunately Clotis seemed to take this personally and seem to think this makes her worthy of targeting, that she deserves the insults and so continued to do it more. Personally I don’t think anyone deserves to be insulted , to be attacked like that except maybe those that have committed the gravest of illegal crimes but I probably wouldn’t attack them myself :-[
FF_Goddess another person often mentioned by the Cloti side is also perfectly capable of being very nice and friendly and again I’ve seen her being so to many. She also draws beautiful art :) Yes she has been mean to Clotis but why should she be judged for that forever? There are many other aspects to her than that :)
What I’ve said about Anastar also applies to Rah Seh and other Cleris and Clotis. They are all human beings and I think they all deserve a chance :)
In short Rah Seh is not a cruel heartless bitch and Anastar is not a completely high and mighty authoritarian person which is the way Cleris seem to make Rah Seh out to be and the way Clotis seem to make Anastar out to be. Neither of them are monsters, they are people and I believe they deserve to be treated like people, the way I’d want to be treated :)
I can’t help but think that Cleris and Clotis would get along better if more people would think of them of individuals and not group units. Just because some have been mean doesn’t mean they all will be. I also think it would help if each side stopped thinking of each other as the enemy and nothing but the enemy and monsters :P
Like I said I don't think my vote will change anything but I wanted to say my piece anyway :P |
Well those are my thoughts on the matter :) Since then I came up with the thought that maybe it would be better to continue to make decisions based on the Clotis behaviour? If they behave inappropriately enough to merit a ban then ban them but if they don’t behave inappropriately let them in? o_o Also what’s going to happen to me and other people like me are we going to get shut out Aly? O_O
Anastar - December 29, 2004 12:34 PM (GMT)
Fury Brand,
Your point that we are all human beings is quite true. On an individual basis, I'm friends with several Cloti's. Death Sin and I have been friends for quite awhile, and he was one of the biggest Cloti's ever on the Gamefaqs forum. I've lost touch with him since he started Uni, but I still hear from him sometimes. He's a great guy with a great sense of humor. We still disagree on the Love Triangle, but we're able to talk about it with one another with humor instead of anger.
Not all talk centers around Cloti vs. Cleris on this forum, FB, but a great deal of it does. We have a certain perspective of the game - that Cloud and Aerith are the couple that Square intended as the true couple of the game. We do not believe that Cloud and Tifa had a love relationship of any kind, nor do we believe that Cloud and Tifa are currently in love, nor do we ever want Cloud and Tifa to have a love relationship. We want a place where we can talk about FFVII and AC from that perspective without disagreement. We do not want to debate the Love Triangle here, and that is inevitable if we let Cloti's in. It is inevitable that there will be discussion about Cloud and Tifa's supposed love relationship if we let Cloti's in. It is inevitable that there will be contention on the issue if we let Cloti's in.
Contention on that very issue is what breeds more anger between Cloti's and Cleris. There are many forums where that disagreement can be discussed. There is, however, no place other than Devotion where the Cleris can discuss their view of FFVII and AC without disagreement. We're tired of hearing the Cloti viewpoint because it makes no sense to us. We want to discuss our viewpoint and share our views in peace without someone trying to tell us that we are wrong.
Why is it so wrong that we want to discuss our viewpoint without contention? This is not a matter of the Cloti's being evil. This is a matter of we no longer want to hear what they have to say about CloudxAerith because we think it's ridiculous and we do not accept it. We no longer want to hear what they have to say about Cloud and Tifa because we think it's ridiculous and we do not accept it. We have to listen to it in many other places. Why do we have to listen to it here, too?
The current vote is:
15 members for keeping Cloti's out of this forum.
1 member for letting Cloti's into this forum.
I hope to hear from more members. :rolleyes:
~Fury Brand~ - December 29, 2004 05:15 PM (GMT)
Thank you for the explanation Aly :) It clarified and cleared up some issues for me :)
| QUOTE (Anastar @ Dec 29 2004, 12:34 PM) |
Fury Brand,
Your point that we are all human beings is quite true. On an individual basis, I'm friends with several Cloti's. Death Sin and I have been friends for quite awhile, and he was one of the biggest Cloti's ever on the Gamefaqs forum. I've lost touch with him since he started Uni, but I still hear from him sometimes. He's a great guy with a great sense of humor. We still disagree on the Love Triangle, but we're able to talk about it with one another with humor instead of anger. |
I think that's great and I'm glad that there are Clotis that don't treat you badly *^_^*
| QUOTE |
Not all talk centers around Cloti vs. Cleris on this forum, FB, but a great deal of it does. We have a certain perspective of the game - that Cloud and Aerith are the couple that Square intended as the true couple of the game. We do not believe that Cloud and Tifa had a love relationship of any kind, nor do we believe that Cloud and Tifa are currently in love, nor do we ever want Cloud and Tifa to have a love relationship. We want a place where we can talk about FFVII and AC from that perspective without disagreement. We do not want to debate the Love Triangle here, and that is inevitable if we let Cloti's in. It is inevitable that there will be discussion about Cloud and Tifa's supposed love relationship if we let Cloti's in. It is inevitable that there will be contention on the issue if we let Cloti's in.
Contention on that very issue is what breeds more anger between Cloti's and Cleris. There are many forums where that disagreement can be discussed. There is, however, no place other than Devotion where the Cleris can discuss their view of FFVII and AC without disagreement. We're tired of hearing the Cloti viewpoint because it makes no sense to us. We want to discuss our viewpoint and share our views in peace without someone trying to tell us that we are wrong.
Why is it so wrong that we want to discuss our viewpoint without contention? This is not a matter of the Cloti's being evil. This is a matter of we no longer want to hear what they have to say about CloudxAerith because we think it's ridiculous and we do not accept it. We no longer want to hear what they have to say about Cloud and Tifa because we think it's ridiculous and we do not accept it. We have to listen to it in many other places. Why do we have to listen to it here, too? |
Oh I completely understand that people want this to be a place where they can freely discuss Aerith X Cloud and where they don't have to defend their opinions and I don't think that's wrong :) I agree that there are other places where debates can take place if people want to debate :) My understanding of the situation is though that Clotis are not just going to be banned from debating but are going to be banned from the board entirely and not allowed to post on any subject or make any new subjects of their own. Is that right? It is true that this board is mostly about Aerith and Cloud but there are other topics to be discussed such as Aerith and Cloud as individual characters, the other individual characters in FFVII or the relationships of those characters with each other and the same with the other games in the Final Fantasy series. There's also the General Chat section where topics can be discussed that don't have anything to do with games at all :) Maybe there are Clotis that would respect your wish to not have debates on the love traingle and content themselves with posting on those other subjects :), I guess I can't really speak for full Clotis though but I do know there are people that like both pairings that would and do indeed do that :lol:
Anyway like I said in my previous post I just wanted to have my say on the matter. There will be no fuss from me here if the ban on all Clotis does go through :)
-FB
Anastar - December 29, 2004 05:42 PM (GMT)
Actually, FB, I think that people who like both pairings are already here. I know of four members for certain (including you), and I believe there are several others already involved in this forum. There's even one that may actually prefer Cloti, although I'm not certain of that. However, that individual doesn't hassle us about our pro-Cleris viewpoints, nor does that individual try to promote Cloti in any way. I've actually found that individual's viewpoints quite interesting on different topics. ;)
I think you'd be surprised how diverse this forum actually is. We simply do not want pro-Cloti posting here, nor do we want to hear anti-Cleris posting, nor do we want to hear Anti-Aerith posting. Anyone who comes in here and tries to give us a hassle about it will find themselves kicked out real fast. Anyone who doesn't give us a hassle, respects our beliefs, doesn't oppose our viewpoints on Cloud and Aerith, and doesn't try to promote CloudxTifa won't get kicked out.
My friend Death Sin is enough of a friend to respect that this place is for Cleris people only. I highly doubt that he would even try to sign up at this forum because he doesn't see CloudxAerith from the same viewpoint. I think he's been a member of Seventh Heaven for a long time, and I doubt he'd see any need to sign up here. Why sign up at any forum that isn't based on your interests or beliefs? That's rather like signing up for a Club at ACF for something you don't like. Why do it?
Shrouded Light - December 29, 2004 08:43 PM (GMT)
Well Aly, for now....I vote out.
Anastar - December 29, 2004 08:56 PM (GMT)
Thanks for the vote, Shroudster.
The current vote is:
15 members for keeping Cloti's out of this forum.
1 member for letting Cloti's into this forum.
I hope to hear from more members. :rolleyes:
Aerith - December 29, 2004 11:05 PM (GMT)
Seeker - December 30, 2004 12:10 AM (GMT)
Hmmm.
I say let them in. Restrict debates and/or pro-Cloti parading to a particular forum if you wish, but still let them in. At least give the idea a chance. More good than you think may come out of it.
Anastar - December 30, 2004 12:42 AM (GMT)
Thanks for the votes, Aerith and Seeker.
The current vote is:
16 members for keeping Cloti's out of this forum.
2 members for letting Cloti's into this forum.
I hope to hear from more members. :rolleyes:
Cloud Gainsborough - December 30, 2004 03:20 AM (GMT)
Sorry to be the pessimist, Seek... but all of the run-ins i've had were bad.
There may be some nice CloTis out there, but i've never met one... and i've encountered many.
KEEP THEM OUT!
Anastar - December 31, 2004 12:51 AM (GMT)
Thanks for voting, Cloud G. :D
The current vote is:
17 members for keeping Cloti's out of this forum.
2 members for letting Cloti's into this forum.
Keep the votes coming in! I'd like to hear from a majority of the members. :rolleyes:
AeRîŠ_š†rIƒE - December 31, 2004 01:10 AM (GMT)
i vote out ( but i gess if theyre civilised enuf ill give them a go)
Ophelia - December 31, 2004 07:53 AM (GMT)
I'll vote to keep them out too.
Anastar - December 31, 2004 01:46 PM (GMT)
Thanks for votes, Ophelia and AeRîŠ_š†rIƒE. :rolleyes:
The current vote is:
19 members for keeping Cloti's out of this forum.
2 members for letting Cloti's into this forum.
Keep the votes coming in! I'd like to hear from a majority of the members.
Sakura27 - December 31, 2004 05:48 PM (GMT)
Out for me. I think is just too much trouble :( .
Nya - December 31, 2004 06:23 PM (GMT)
I chose OUT. because CloTi fans are bound to disagree with lots of stuff CloRith fans feel about the game. But if they're mature enough about everything, I guess it'd be okay... but Out though ^^
PassiveAggressive - December 31, 2004 08:05 PM (GMT)
Limit it to a particular thread, like stated by Seeker. That way if there is a dispute or some sort of disagreement like one made with the recent forum issue, it can be dealt with in a controlled, civilized manner (hopefully). And those who want nothing to do with it, or them, can stay out of it.
I vote in, with limitations.
Anastar - December 31, 2004 08:23 PM (GMT)
Thanks for votes, Nya, Sakura27, and PA.
The current vote is:
21 members for keeping Cloti's out of this forum.
3 members for letting Cloti's into this forum.
A note about limiting the Cloti's to certain areas of the forum. That would require that they assign themselves to the Cloti group upon registration. Otherwise, the admins/mods would have to assign them to the Cloti group after registration, which could turn into a hassle depending on the number of forum members. Once that type of arrangement was made, there will most likely be dispute over them being allowed in only certain areas of the forum.
Keep the votes coming in! I'd like to hear from a majority of the members. :rolleyes:
Materia Thief - January 1, 2005 12:50 AM (GMT)
Hmm...my thoughts on this have probably been stated by other members before me, but heck...these are my thoughts so I'm just going to post them.
I've been in my share of LT debates and I'm sick and tired of being flamed by them. Clotis can be rude and offensive in many ways (thoughts of CIML are coming to mind). However, Clotis, like us, are human beings. They, like us, can be both perfectly reasonable and total 'biyotchs'. I have many Cloti friends that I 'agree to disagree' with. If we could achieve some kind of agreement, like I have with my friends, then I think it'd be interesting to hear their point of view on other things BESIDES the LT.
So my final vote is to let them in, although I advise that they stay out of the 'Venting' and 'Pro-Cloaer' forums. ^_^
(err..I hope I didn't ramble too much. ^^;;;)
Aeris - January 1, 2005 04:25 PM (GMT)
Is there a possibility that you could let them in, but resrict their options? I just think a healthy debate is good, but if any flaming starts, kick them out. It's fun to discuss our opinions, but it can get out of hand. So, I say let them in, unless you have a reason to kick them out. :)
Anastar - January 1, 2005 10:52 PM (GMT)
Thanks for voting, Aeris and Materia Thief! :D
The current vote is:
21 members for keeping Cloti's out of this forum.
5 members for letting Cloti's into this forum with restricted options. (No one has said to give them full access)
Limiting the Cloti's to certain areas of the forum would require that admins/mods assign them to a Cloti group after registration, which could turn into a hassle depending on the number of forum members. Once they were allowed into the forum with restrictions, I foresee a dispute starting about why they only have limited access and demands that they have full access to the forum. Do we want that?
Keep the votes coming in! I'd like to hear from a majority of the members. :rolleyes:
Daga15 - January 5, 2005 02:45 AM (GMT)

well, i think this is a site for aeris and cloud, not for discuss the love triangle..if the tifa and cloud fan came here, in my opinion is only to try to make us change our mind about cloud and aeris, but, sorry, this will neber happen becauce the true fans of cloris, we know very well who is the true couple off ff7...i think this is only for aeris and cloud, so, if they dont love the couple why the come here? i dont go to tifa and cloud sites, only to talk about the love of aeris and cloud because they would probabily ignore me so..why we have to alow them to came in this site?
its only my opinion
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aerithstrife - January 5, 2005 03:49 PM (GMT)
Well, not all clotis' are bad. But I think I can speak for the majority of many us being flamed, name called, and ridicule by many Clotis'. So, its hard to decide since you don't know which Cloti is accepting and which one is only mocking and faking it out. (We already saw those members in here.) So, my vote will have to be NO, for now. Until there are Clotis' who doesn't come in here just faking it out or mocking us like some have done already, I would have to vote for keeping Clotis' out. <_<
Anastar - January 5, 2005 06:18 PM (GMT)
Thanks for voting, Daga15 and aerithstrife! :D
The current vote is:
23 members for keeping Cloti's out of this forum.
5 members for letting Cloti's into this forum with restricted options. (No one has said to give them full access)
Keep the votes coming in! I'd like to hear from a majority of the members. :rolleyes:
Sefie - January 5, 2005 07:52 PM (GMT)
Y'know what I don't get? What's the POINT of restricted access? The people who have voted for that have voted like that simply because they knew a nice CloTi. Now, if the person's nice enough can't they just join the forum and not mention they're a CloTi, and not bring it up? Nobody here wants to debate, and what's the point of letting a CloTi into a Cleris forum other than that? I mean, if we wanna be friends and talk, there are LOTS of other forums ou there for that. So, why let them into ours? It's just silly
PassiveAggressive - January 6, 2005 12:10 AM (GMT)
Because sometimes it's better to be honest and admit that ones' a CloTi than hide it, and be ostracized for it when it slips out. I've encountered that through being a Cloris and it's not fun. If you just hide it, you're not being honest, and the vote is to let them enter or not. When you look at it that way, the vote is pointless.
Lady Anime - January 6, 2005 01:09 AM (GMT)
I have to say don't let the Clotis in. <_<
I've only been here as a member for one day but I already like this fourm. Because I know people here are friendly and they won't make fun of me for liking Cleris and/or for liking Aeris in general. :)
Even though there are nice Clotis, the majority of Clotis are the ones that make up those stupid pieces of "evidence" and call Aeris sleezy and say she stole Cloud.
The point of this fourm will be gone. I don't want that to happen. So I have to say don't let the Clotis in.
Anastar - January 6, 2005 02:43 AM (GMT)
Thanks for your vote, Lady Anime! :D
The current vote is:
24 members for keeping Cloti's out of this forum.
5 members for letting Cloti's into this forum with restricted options. (No one has said to give them full access)
Keep the votes coming in! I'd like to hear from a majority of the members. :rolleyes:
Coral - January 7, 2005 12:16 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Aeris @ Jan 1 2005, 04:25 PM) |
| Is there a possibility that you could let them in, but resrict their options? I just think a healthy debate is good, but if any flaming starts, kick them out. It's fun to discuss our opinions, but it can get out of hand. So, I say let them in, unless you have a reason to kick them out. :) |
I think the same as Aeris.
The question is: is this place a forum or a private club? ;)
So I vote them in, with restrictions (people can be very very silly sometimes, Cloti or not :lol: ). I've always talked with sweet Cloti: that's why I don't feel the same as you.
Anastar - January 9, 2005 12:37 AM (GMT)
Thanks for your vote, Coral! :D
The current vote is:
24 members for keeping Cloti's out of this forum.
6 members for letting Cloti's into this forum with restricted options. (No one has said to give them full access)
Keep the votes coming in! I'd like to hear from a majority of the members. :rolleyes:
CrapShackeR - January 13, 2005 01:07 AM (GMT)
Eh, I'm stuck. I'd like to see what they have to say about Cloud and Aerith's relationship, but I doubt they'd stick to that.
For the sake of keeping the forum spam and flaming free, I vote to keep the forums within Clerith fans only.