Title: Kiddies?
Description: If ya want some, how many?
goddess_in_pink07 - May 30, 2006 02:19 AM (GMT)
Ok, if you are gonna have any kids anytime in your life, how many would you want?
For me, i want 6. Yes, 6. I want a good number of kids, more than the average woman has. I come from an extremely large family, so i guess it just runs in my blood to want more than average amount of kids.
I want at least 4 girls and 2 boys. But, whatever i get, i'll be happy with.
Kids are a big part of my life. I'm never going to live without having a baby or child to hold on to.
They give me so much joy at times. But, they can also cause mass chaos.... but, i think its all worth it in the end. :P
Yes, its a little early to think about kids, but thats alright. I might change my mind about kids completely in the future.
Please leave your thoughts. Please and thank-you! :gift:
Sefie - May 30, 2006 02:51 AM (GMT)
YES. I've been baby hungry since I was 16, but this last mother's day has left me wanting to start a family even MORE*Is 20* >.< *And unmarried* DX
Anyways, I come from a family of 9 so I've always wanted alot of kids. I think 7 would be a really good amount, but I could dig 6 too ^_^ Those families of only 3 kids always throw me for a loop, I don't know how they can stand to be so small!
goddess_in_pink07 - May 30, 2006 03:09 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Sefie @ May 30 2006, 02:51 AM) |
YES. I've been baby hungry since I was 16, but this last mother's day has left me wanting to start a family even MORE*Is 20* >.< *And unmarried* DX
Anyways, I come from a family of 9 so I've always wanted alot of kids. I think 7 would be a really good amount, but I could dig 6 too ^_^ Those families of only 3 kids always throw me for a loop, I don't know how they can stand to be so small! |
wow, your just as big kid lover as i am, hu? :D Thats so cool! I come from a family of 14, so that leaves me with plenty of little baby nephews and nieces to give love away too. (23 to be exact....):D Yep, i've been an aunt since i was 2. Funny thing is, no one calls me "aunt". They all talk to me by my first name.
yin-chan - May 30, 2006 09:16 AM (GMT)
7 SEFIE??!?! :o Goodness, that's like a football team! :D You would make a very cool mother though.
As for me...whoa...too far off to even consider. But I think ideally I would like 2 children...a boy and a girl. ^_^ The boy should be older so he can look after his little sister and they'll balance each other out well in masculinity and feminity.
Lynn - May 30, 2006 10:56 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (yin-chan @ May 30 2006, 09:16 AM) |
| As for me...whoa...too far off to even consider. But I think ideally I would like 2 children...a boy and a girl. ^_^ The boy should be older so he can look after his little sister and they'll balance each other out well in masculinity and feminity. |
*clings to yin-chan* Yes, I am checking off yet another similarity between us. :lol:
I'd probably go for a small family too. It's only ever been me and my brother, and even though I do have a ton of cousins, I've never been especially close to them. So being used to a small family, I think I'll probably end up with a small family too. Two or three sound about just right.
A more pragmatic reason would be that raising kids are EXPENSIVE. D: Seriously, I think about all the money my parents have put in me and my brother (and it's not like we've been going to expensive private schools or anything), and how such costs can only rise with every passing day-- it's freaking scary. I'm lucky as it is to have gotten the scholarships that I have to fund my tertiary education, because I don't think we would've been able to manage it on my parents' income alone.
Of course, some part of me thinks I'll never have kids, because I feel I'm terribly boring with them. :sweat: My brother is the fun ones who entertains our little cousins when they come over, and I'm the one who worries they'll fall off the couch/break their jaw on a table and prepares their drinks, food etc. :P
Resha - May 30, 2006 11:38 AM (GMT)
heehee...i'm not planning to be wed with my boyfriend right now, but i think i would only like three. eldest-girl middie-girl youngest-boy. I like that way, since that's my family pattern, i'm in the middie, so, i'm the pacifier for the two of them. :D
seven kids are hard, you need to have lots of money and efforts to make yourself happy and content though, plus i think my time would be hectic if i have that kind of bunch, so three is okay...i hope he asks me to marry me... :wub:
goddess_in_pink07 - May 30, 2006 01:36 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Cynel @ May 30 2006, 11:38 AM) |
heehee...i'm not planning to be wed with my boyfriend right now, but i think i would only like three. eldest-girl middie-girl youngest-boy. I like that way, since that's my family pattern, i'm in the middie, so, i'm the pacifier for the two of them. :D seven kids are hard, you need to have lots of money and efforts to make yourself happy and content though, plus i think my time would be hectic if i have that kind of bunch, so three is okay...i hope he asks me to marry me... :wub: |
awww, i hope he does! That would be so cool to get married.... :woot: I want to so bad! :D Your so lucky....
Resha - May 30, 2006 02:19 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (goddess_in_pink07 @ May 30 2006, 01:36 PM) |
| QUOTE (Cynel @ May 30 2006, 11:38 AM) | heehee...i'm not planning to be wed with my boyfriend right now, but i think i would only like three. eldest-girl middie-girl youngest-boy. I like that way, since that's my family pattern, i'm in the middie, so, i'm the pacifier for the two of them. :D seven kids are hard, you need to have lots of money and efforts to make yourself happy and content though, plus i think my time would be hectic if i have that kind of bunch, so three is okay...i hope he asks me to marry me... :wub: |
awww, i hope he does! That would be so cool to get married.... :woot: I want to so bad! :D Your so lucky....
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I can't stop laughing!!! I hope you get married by your love too, Pinkie!!! :wub:
goddess_in_pink07 - May 30, 2006 02:42 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Cynel @ May 30 2006, 02:19 PM) |
| QUOTE (goddess_in_pink07 @ May 30 2006, 01:36 PM) | | QUOTE (Cynel @ May 30 2006, 11:38 AM) | heehee...i'm not planning to be wed with my boyfriend right now, but i think i would only like three. eldest-girl middie-girl youngest-boy. I like that way, since that's my family pattern, i'm in the middie, so, i'm the pacifier for the two of them. :D seven kids are hard, you need to have lots of money and efforts to make yourself happy and content though, plus i think my time would be hectic if i have that kind of bunch, so three is okay...i hope he asks me to marry me... :wub: |
awww, i hope he does! That would be so cool to get married.... :woot: I want to so bad! :D Your so lucky....
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I can't stop laughing!!! I hope you get married by your love too, Pinkie!!! :wub:
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Don't worry! I'm gonna get married when i'm able! I can assure you that. I just want to right now!! :fist: I just recently went to a wedding, and that makes me wanna get married that much more!
Imaginary__girl - May 30, 2006 03:59 PM (GMT)
I want a set of twins, one boy and one girl. Since twins run in my family, I have a better chance! :lol: But on the off chance that I don't get a set of twins, I want one boy and one girl. Doesn't really matter which ones older, as long as they are both healthy.
pink_ribbon07 - May 31, 2006 01:16 AM (GMT)
I luv kids yes absolutly!
I say i probobaly want between 2 and 4 that would proboaly be good for me! :D
I really want twins girls that would be fun or a boy and girl twin set! That would be sooo fun! :D
I just need kids to spoil!~!! lol
Pyra Kurai Akaidra - May 31, 2006 11:39 AM (GMT)
I say 2 or more, but 5 is the maximum. Why? I want my kids to have siblings and a good relationship. (Well, my own is kinda sarcastic/annoyed/wanting-to-kill-but-still-care kind.)
Unless I become like my grandparents and end up with 7 or 8. :lol: That kinda explain my many aunts and uncles.
Maiden - May 31, 2006 10:23 PM (GMT)
none what so ever after I had 20 pshycics tell me I was going to have Twins that was just out of the question :o so none for me -_- and plus I hate kids :P
now if Cloud existed and he wanted some I wouldn't mind :wub: ......JK :lol:
-Testament- - June 1, 2006 02:57 AM (GMT)
I want 2 children, a son and a daughter, but I want to have a daughter first. Be a bonus if I had a boy and girl twin set. I just really want a little girl :)
goddess_in_pink07 - June 1, 2006 01:22 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (-Testament- @ Jun 1 2006, 02:57 AM) |
| I want 2 children, a son and a daughter, but I want to have a daughter first. Be a bonus if I had a boy and girl twin set. I just really want a little girl :) |
awww, thats soo cute! :fangirl: I'm sure you will get one soon! :fangirl:
Tenshi_Aerith - June 1, 2006 04:00 PM (GMT)
I'd want most likely 2-3 kids, Kids are wonderful even with the hassles they give us ^^
Yukari - June 6, 2006 06:08 PM (GMT)
I'm not really sure whether I even want kids, myself. I have a niece, and she's adorable, and I do feel maternal when I'm around her, but at the end of the day I can always hand her over to my brother when she's grouchy or wet or hungry. I'm not sure whether I'd be able to handle taking care of a baby full time. I like my sleep, (and my freedom) too much.
Maiden - June 6, 2006 07:24 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE |
| I'm not really sure whether I even want kids, myself. I have a niece, and she's adorable, and I do feel maternal when I'm around her, but at the end of the day I can always hand her over to my brother when she's grouchy or wet or hungry. I'm not sure whether I'd be able to handle taking care of a baby full time. I like my sleep, (and my freedom) too much. |
Same here I have a sister and a baby cousin both the same age and I babysit all the time i'm not mean to them or anything I love them to death but it's very hard to take care of children so I don't want any :) ....hooray for FREEDOM ne? :D
goddess_in_pink07 - June 6, 2006 08:31 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (reibenichou @ Jun 6 2006, 07:24 PM) |
| QUOTE | | I'm not really sure whether I even want kids, myself. I have a niece, and she's adorable, and I do feel maternal when I'm around her, but at the end of the day I can always hand her over to my brother when she's grouchy or wet or hungry. I'm not sure whether I'd be able to handle taking care of a baby full time. I like my sleep, (and my freedom) too much. |
Same here I have a sister and a baby cousin both the same age and I babysit all the time i'm not mean to them or anything I love them to death but it's very hard to take care of children so I don't want any :) ....hooray for FREEDOM ne? :D
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LOl, same here. I have to watch neices and nephews all the time... :ermm: But, i wuv em to death.
Alantie - June 11, 2006 04:38 AM (GMT)
Myself, I want at least a little girl :fangirl: At most I think I could only handle 3 kids, though I would be more comfortable with two. As of right now, I know I'm not ready for children, but someday I want them ^_^ Too bad I can't just have them as cute babies, skip the terrible twos, and have em be nice all the time!
Lee-Lee - June 11, 2006 09:58 AM (GMT)
I'd love a daughter, and I'll name her Lana, after my sister. ^_^ I'll love her with everything I've got, and I'll make sure nothing bad will ever happen to her.
~Faith~ - June 11, 2006 10:15 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Lee-Lee @ Jun 11 2006, 09:58 AM) |
| I'd love a daughter, and I'll name her Lana, after my sister. ^_^ I'll love her with everything I've got, and I'll make sure nothing bad will ever happen to her. |
Um....:unsure: Why would you name your kid after your sibling? Wouldn't that be really really confusing?
Anyway, I'm going to have a bunch of kids. :D
Maiden - June 11, 2006 04:36 PM (GMT)
If I do have Twins like my last post before if they are Girls then I'll name one Aeris and one Aerith :whistle: :lol: and if they are boys Leon and Cloud :fangirl:
Real_Emotion - June 11, 2006 05:42 PM (GMT)
:giggle: I must admit, this topic is really cute.
As for me, I'd like to have at least 2 or 3 little ones of my own. The max would be 4, maybe. To be very honest, I've always wanted mixed children. :blush: I wouldn't mind procreating within my race, though. It's just I think mixed babies are so very cute. And the idea of having a children with so many cultural backgrounds within themselves is really interesting.
Alantie - June 11, 2006 08:30 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (reibenichou @ Jun 11 2006, 04:36 PM) |
| If I do have Twins like my last post before if they are Girls then I'll name one Aeris and one Aerith :whistle: :lol: and if they are boys Leon and Cloud :fangirl: |
That is too cute! :fangirl: Or twin boys, Sora and Roxas, or Sora and Cloud. Twin girls Kairi and Aerith :P
Bremic - June 12, 2006 01:38 AM (GMT)
I certaintly want kids, and it doesn't matter how many I have, as long as I have a loving wife. We would be there for each other, you know?
goddess_in_pink07 - June 12, 2006 03:04 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Bremic @ Jun 12 2006, 01:38 AM) |
| I certaintly want kids, and it doesn't matter how many I have, as long as I have a loving wife. We would be there for each other, you know? |
Aww, how sweet! Don't worry Bremic. Your gonna find that wife of yours. I can garentee that....
Wingless - June 12, 2006 06:10 AM (GMT)
I enjoy kids, but the lifestyle I'll be living once I graduate is probably not condusive to raising kids properly. I'd worry about being a bad mother too much. Ideally, a little girl would be wonderful--a boy would be okay too, but I have a soft spot for little girls. ^_^
Generally I'd rather just take care of other people's kids anyway. ^_~
TidusBlankety - June 13, 2006 10:48 PM (GMT)
Me?...i would want 4 kids.
Charles Edwin Wendlick the 3rd
Guy Matthew
Serentiy Twilla
and...
Trinity Star
those will be my childrens names!!!!
yayayayayay for children!...i just really hope that whoever i marry will like those names too...my last girlfriend...but i dont know if im gonna date her again(see my topic called "confusing...") or if ill find someone else, but those are the names i want to name my kids ^-^
The_Drizzle - July 11, 2006 12:20 AM (GMT)
I love kids. I have a son, he's 12, will be 13 in November, and possibly become a member here, I hope. I do want more kids but I kinda want to pass up the whole "baby" phase. So i'm happy my g/f has two wonderful and intelligent daughters. And if things go right I will have 3 kids to claim :)
Tacofoolio - July 11, 2006 01:55 AM (GMT)
I would absolutely love to have kids one day, I think I'd have only a few though, 2-4ish probably. I have a niece and nephew, with one more niece on the way, and it's great spending time with them. But before that, I want to be financially ready, owning a house first is one of my goals. I feel the more prepared I am, the easier it will be on them.
The_Drizzle - July 11, 2006 02:10 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Tacofoolio @ Jul 11 2006, 01:55 AM) |
| I would absolutely love to have kids one day, I think I'd have only a few though, 2-4ish probably. I have a niece and nephew, with one more niece on the way, and it's great spending time with them. But before that, I want to be financially ready, owning a house first is one of my goals. I feel the more prepared I am, the easier it will be on them. |
I got a quick question for ya if you dont mind.
I never really wanted kids all that much until my nephew was born. After spending time with him I really grew to the point I wanted a kid of my own. Now for my quesiton. Is that how it was for you too? I ask cause alot of people I know felt the same as I did until a child came into thier life in one way or another. Sorry if i'm diggin to deep or asking anything too personal. I'm just courious. :)
Tacofoolio - July 11, 2006 03:50 AM (GMT)
Oh, it's fine! I think I've actually always figured I'd have kids. My mom even insists one day I told her I decided not to marry my neighbor because he didn't want kids, and we were like 4 years old! :lol: I used to help take care of my brother and would baby-sit, so that added to it. I do think that having a niece and nephew is what really made me seriously think about it again though. I had a lot of friends have babies way too young and were unhappy, but playing with my niece and hearing her calling for me and hugging me reminded me why I wanted them.
The_Drizzle - July 11, 2006 04:11 AM (GMT)
Right on, and thank you for indulging my curiosity. I like what you said on how it reminded why you wanted kids in the first place. It's amazing how a kid and fill you with so much joy an hope isn't it.
aerisbolt - July 11, 2006 01:50 PM (GMT)
Kids.... this is a subject that is never far away from me since I am at that time in my life where having a child would make sense. There are parts of me that cannot wait to have children, yet I love my job and not having the responsibility of a child. My husband and I like to go to all the hockey games during the season and that is just one of many things that would change once a child comes into the picture. I would like to wait till our debt goes down a little bit and we have more of an opportunity to buy a house....sorry like you all wanted to know this.
Anyhow to answer the question I would like two kids a boy, then a girl but of course as long as they are healthy that is what is important. If I end up having two of the same sex then I wouldn't mind having a third but that is where I stop. I try to kep all of it in perspective since htere is so much you don't know about until you become a parent. The idea of a life being completely dependent on me is amazing yet extremely terrifying. I just pray when the time comes I can do even half the job my mom did raising me.
Demos Maus - July 12, 2006 02:36 AM (GMT)
I would probably want 2 kids, twins maybe but I like a boy and a girl. ^^
Aeris_gast - July 12, 2006 04:02 PM (GMT)
I don't know but I think I would one (no more) because I want work, and I think combine work with your family life is very difficult. But I don't know, I can change my mind... :P
Kuki Prower - July 12, 2006 04:52 PM (GMT)
I've always wanted just one kid, but I wouldn't mind having more, three being the most. A boy is probably the kid for me, I think girls would be a little harder to handle and bring up but then again I've always like boys better, maybe because I am male :lol: But before I even consider adopting one, I would have to have a long term partner, a good job and a house under my head, I would also probably want to own the house to.
So its just getting my life sorted out before I would think about kids.
Frylock - July 12, 2006 06:16 PM (GMT)