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Title: Are Your Parents Split Up?


pink_ribbon07 - May 1, 2006 12:04 AM (GMT)
My parents are!

I live with my mom!

I go to my dads house every other weekend and if it is my moms weekend i got to my dads house on thursday and stay the night and come home after school and i go every tuesday from 6-8 pm!

Sometimes I wish my mom and dad were togeher and sometimes i dont ~!!

goddess_in_pink07 - May 1, 2006 12:06 AM (GMT)
No.

But, if your parents weren't split up, then i would of never met you Pink_ribbon07. You wouldnt of ever become my niece-in-law. Seems like i've known you forever.... :D :D

Alantie - May 1, 2006 05:37 PM (GMT)
Yup, my parents are too!

They got divorced when I was really young, when I was I about five, and I've hated it. I live with my mom and my brothers. I used to go see my dad every other weekend and every other holiday (and despised it >_<. My dad isn't my favorite person in the world), but when I turned sixteen I stopped going all the time. Now I only see him on special occasions.

Divorce is hard, isn't it? It messes with your feelings so much! Sometimes I wish my parents weren't divorced, but then I'm glad they are. I think the problem is I want a sense of normality about my home, a dad in the house like a lot of other people. I've never had a daddy to spoil me rotten, lol.

BlackWind - May 1, 2006 10:15 PM (GMT)
My parents split up about a year ago. I live with my mom, and every other weekend go to my dads. -shrug-

Paladin's Heart - May 1, 2006 10:21 PM (GMT)
Does being widowed count?

...

Then yes. But spiritually, no.

Carmen - May 9, 2006 02:14 PM (GMT)
My parents had split up a long time ago. I live with my mother now and its a :X ing pain. (Excuse my language :P )

I would sometimes visit my step-dad in North Carolina and my grandma in Louisiana, or my uncle in West Virginia :hmm:....

I have my family all over the South....

ladystrife - May 9, 2006 02:22 PM (GMT)
yeah my parents are split it sucks bug time i always have too visit my mums boyfreind who i hate he always buys me stuff just soo i would like him but it gets kinda anoying after awile <_< but i always Visit my dad who i love more than anyone in this whole world :fangirl: he is the greatest i love visiting him he spoils me :lol:

Carmen - May 9, 2006 02:55 PM (GMT)
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yeah my parents are split it sucks bug time i always have too visit my mums boyfreind who i hate he always buys me stuff just soo i would like him but it gets kinda anoying after awile  but i always Visit my dad who i love more than anyone in this whole world  he is the greatest i love visiting him he spoils me 



But sometimes I hate being away from certain family members. the one thing I dont want to do is be with a family member so much and forget about the others because Jealousy and Sibling Rivalry runs alot in my family.

xx-Forever-Aerith-xx - May 29, 2007 06:45 PM (GMT)
Yeah my Mum and Dad split up 8 years ago (they are still married though)

I stay with my mum and i'm lucky if i see my Dad (all added up together hour wise)
a day out of every year

I mean it took my Dad 3 weeks to phone me after the new year and he was only on the phone for like 5 minutes

He Sucks :mad:

Demos Maus - May 29, 2007 10:23 PM (GMT)
Yes. They spilt about six or five years ago. It was a shock to me cause I was only about nine or ten and I thought it was my fault (of course they said it wasn't my fault, it was there fault).

I stay with my mom and my grandparents, I go to my dad's every wednesday and every other weekend (and two to four weeks for vacation)

But whenever the subject of why they broke up, is in mystery. There had been a few rumors in the family as to why (most of them are about my mother...) But, I don't think any of them are the real answer.

The_Krazie_Chick - June 1, 2007 12:47 AM (GMT)
They separated when I was 5 and got back together when I was 7. Still together, w00tness!

Amathala - June 1, 2007 02:56 PM (GMT)
ahahahaha! YES! My parents split up when I was 4 years old. My father was an abusing b*stard, so mom got tired of it and kicked him out.

Last time I saw the jerk was when I was 12 years old (I'm now 24), and we had to drive to see him instead of him coming to us. I haven't had an email from him in about 3 months, and haven't spoken on the phone with him for 4 years.

Resha - June 1, 2007 04:24 PM (GMT)
YES. They split up ever since I was 12 years old, when I left Japan with my mother, then to Korea. I have an advantage to their relationship though, I occassionally go to Japan, Korea and Philippines!!! But now I'm not relying on them. HA! I will never get in their same love situation!!! Kenj and I would last forever!!!

Kaldea - June 1, 2007 08:34 PM (GMT)
Mine aren't. They almost did but nope.

I feel kind of rare in this thread. :mellow:

Heavens Cloud - June 1, 2007 08:46 PM (GMT)
Yup, sure are... My mom was 17 and my dad was 19 when they had me, and only lasted together for two years after my birth unfortunately... But they still talk normally and get along despite not being together, which is good... I wouldn't want to be in the middle of mom/dad issues all the time.

illwaitforever1 - June 1, 2007 08:48 PM (GMT)
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Mine aren't. They almost did but nope.

I feel kind of rare in this thread. 


Same, my dad had an affiar, mom went crazy, big blazing row, but they are still together

aerislives - June 2, 2007 02:34 PM (GMT)
yep split don't like to talk about i't much but i'm ok with it :cry:

Lutearina - June 2, 2007 03:14 PM (GMT)
Well, my parents got married four months after they met eachother, and they got divorced when I was eight.

My mom told me that you have to be friends with someone before you marry 'em. They were just too different, and, well...Hmm. They're both awesome people, but I guess not right for eachother. My mom's still single, and my dad remarried when I was ten. :3

I lived at my mom's last year, but this year, I'm at my dad and stepmom's. They live a half hour away from eachother, so it's pretty easy. :3 I go to my mom's every other weekend, and Friday, which is where I am right now! O:

Mokuren - June 2, 2007 10:23 PM (GMT)
No my parents are together. But for some reason it feels kind of awkward that they are together because their personalities are polar opposites. My mom is very uptight, critical, and serious-minded. While my dad is somewhat lackadaisical, takes life in stride, and mellow-minded. I'm not saying I hate them being together though it just feels kind of awkward sometimes.

NekoDono - June 7, 2007 05:27 PM (GMT)
I'm lucky enough to say no. Although they split for a while before I was born.

goddess_in_pink07 - June 7, 2007 06:35 PM (GMT)
My parents are together, but I honestly think they only got married in the first place because they kind of had too.
My mother got pregnant with her first child, and my parent's weren't married. If their parents found out, I know for a fact that they would be looked down for it. A very big dishonor.
Their very opposite too. My mother is so much more sensitive, open minded, and gentle. My father is up tight, rather arrogant, and sometimes insensitive.

I know my parents do love each other, but I feel the marriage was forced.

Imaginary__girl - June 7, 2007 07:03 PM (GMT)
I think of my parents as separated.

I [unfortunetly] live with my mother. My father is here sometimes but not a lot. Hardly ever in fact. He has his own apartment downtown somewhere. I don't know, he won't let me see it. So they aren't divorced [legally anyway], they are just kind of seperated. I think thats due to my mothers lack of respect for my father. She is CONSTANTLY making fun of the things he says, does, or the way he acts. So, I really don't blame my father for getting his own place. Whatever makes him happy I guess.

Jinchuu - June 13, 2007 11:35 PM (GMT)
Mine are. I ended up living with my mom.

Inuyatta - June 14, 2007 12:42 AM (GMT)
Yes, thankfully. My parents were a disaster together and equally bad by themselves. Where my dad was physically and verbally abusive, my mom was emotionally and verbally abusive. I absolutely loathed her passive-aggressive way of getting back at me for not approving of her boyfriends (she'd conveniently forget to bring food home, but my brother always had a full stomach because he was little and didn't know enough to have an opinion).

I suppose it could have been worse. I could have been sexually abused. Still, I'm just glad I don't have to live with either of them anymore.

Materia Thief - June 14, 2007 01:26 AM (GMT)
Nope, they aren't. I'm not sure if it's better or worse this way, but I prefer it this way [them being together]. :)

The_Krazie_Chick - June 15, 2007 11:38 PM (GMT)
.......

My parents are gonna...oh God, I'm gonna start crying again. They're gonna split up. My dad says that they're great as best friends, but they kinda suck as husband and wife. I'm almost 14, I don't think I should be crying this much...especially when my aunt and "uncle"....Jesus Christ, this feels so #*@$%'ing surreal. I didn't see it coming...last time, I was 5 and I saw it coming, but...this is....I don't know. I think I'm going to stay here...in the house I live in now and live with my dad and my animals. I don't want this to happen. I just...shit, I'm crying again. Damn, I sound unstable, don't I? This is...I don't even know what to think...this...I know it's not the end of the world...and I shouldn't be freaking out so much...I mean I was crying and talking to my dad for 2 hours, and I feel better...it's just...oh God. This sucks...


UPDATE

...Uh...never mind...the divorce seems to be...canceled? I guess they're gonna start going to a marriage counselor lady. Anyway, I had this weird deep-down feeling that it wasn't gonna happen, they were acting completely normal around each other. My dad never wanted it to happen in the first place, he told me he talked to her and...it's not happening anymore? I don't care how it happened, I'm just happy they're staying together!




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