This topic is to experise your feelings about your loved ones that you've lost.

I remember when my Great granmother died i was really up upset i visited her alot butshe was 94 or something and you would think that her time is almost over, i was in tears for ages, but she had a long life not like all those people in the world.
:bye:

Yes I lost my grandpa two years ago.... :(

He died from lung cancer....they discovered it May 1st (my bday) and by June 2nd he died.... :cry:

I loved my grandpa very much, and I always will.

Which leads me to say...:

Don't smoke!!!!!

I lost two grandpas,one after i born and the other 8 months later my birth
I lost one of my grandmas too, when I was 7,I suffered a lot because of this..
And I lost my uncle when I was going to be 10.

I've lost some family, but none of yet to affect me the slightest :ermm:

I've lost friends and family alike. I feel sad but I move on. But sometimes I think their still alive and I ask someone what they've been up to lately... then they tell me they've been dead.
Its hard for me to comprehend that those people have stopped existing... It's almost as if I don't miss them like their dead, more like we haven't seen them in quite some time.
I'm odd.

I've lost all three of my grandads, and my favorite uncle who was like the father I always wanted. He died from a freak car accident when I was in freshmen year...back in August 2004. It had left me many scars more than the other deaths because it was unexpected. And to this very day I still love him and wished the people who killed him suffer a horrible life....-_-;;.

I feel sad for one of my friends actually, :sad:
She's lost her Mum and her dad is like 60% to die right now. :sad:

I feel like you to sometimes i can hear their voices in the wind but that's when i know that they are watching over me.

Haha, I want you all to know that I tried to hide this from everyone, but sometimes I have to just talk to people about it...you know?

But, last year I lost my mother to cancer. And I know how it is to have on the day (or night) of the time you've found someone gone forever, just struck with the pain of someone who is never coming back.

No more hugs, no more lucky moments to celebrate together, no more phone calls just to chat, no more "just one minute." Sometimes, what we care about the most goes away..never to return before we can say good-bye, say "I Love You." So while we have it, it's best we love it and care for it and fix it when it's broken and take good care of it when it's sick. This is true for marriage and friendships. And children with bad report cards; And dogs with bad hips; And aging parents and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we cherish them. Some things we keep -- like a best friend who moved away or a classmate we grew up with. There are just some things that make us happy, no matter what. Life is important, and so are the people we know. And so, We should keep them close.

Oh, and by the way, do you guys have anything that reminds you of them, or like a keepsake? I have a Locket with my moms picture in it, and on the other side it says "When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure".

"No one is truely dead, unless everyone else forgets about them."

I don't have anything of my Great Granmother :cry: but e have to accept the circle of life we know what we've all got coming we know that we are all going to die but then just like Rikku-chan said as long as we have perople in our life that love him we will never die plus i think that even when you die you become a spirit and then we all watch over our loved ones to protect them and everything and that's what i think that my Great Granmother is doing right now watching over we to keep me away from harm.

Although we all miss them away in that place we call Heaven we all know that their're happy there living a better life not like down here where there is suffering all over the world.
But you knoow that a baby is born every second in time right now but to tell you the truth one person must give up their life to give life to another.

Well anyway i think this is the way i see it.
We have all been given life while someone as thrown away their's so that's why we must make the most of our life, because after all we are all on this world for a short time.

When people die who are close to me, I seldom cry. I don't know why, I guess I just don't understand that I wont see them again as long as I'm alive... But that doesn't bother me, I keep my memories close to me and I'm always so busy I seldom have time to think about anyone who isn't around me all of the time, living or dead.

That's true.


And even though we will never see them again while we all are alive but when we'll die because everyone knows when you are going to die and you can't escape it they are the 2 stages of life everyone's has.
Life and Death,
But when we die we'll all go up there and meet all our loved ones then we'll never we apart again.
And i actually belive that when we die we go to Heaven and have a bette life up there.

But you know the song that got over all my feelings about my deaths in my lifes is.

A song called " I Can Make It Though The Rain "

I lost my Grandpa last summer. I remember that I couldn't cry, I was just stunned. I remember that I was staying at my Grandma and Grandpa's house, and I woke up and everyone was upset, and there were weird people in the house. The funeral was really sweet. And I remember feeling peaceful. I knew he was in a better place.
He died of a massive heart attack.

I lost my grandpa when I was about 5 or 6 years old. At the time I was so young I didnt understand what was happening. I remember I used to ask my mom all the time; "Mom when is grandpa coming over again?" As I got older I realised what happened and got really upset. And now, my grandmother is really ill. She has had some min-strokes over the year and a few siezures and she is really weak. I dont think she will be with us for Christmas 2006. :sad:

It can be quite hard to get over the loss of a loved one. I get sad at times when I think about my grandpa....but other times he's alive in my heart, and I know he's there with me... :)

:huggle:

:sad: ..just about 5 days ago I lost my uncle.... I couldn't believe it... I was devastated we were... close in a way... I remember when I was a young child I was always after him and he'd take care of me. :sad:

and the fact that he died a horrible death and I wasn't able to attend his funeral left so much sorrow in my heart (he was in mexico)

I...still can't believe it.... he left his wife and 2 kids ...so small .....I'm sorry I'll stop...

but yeah.... I try to keep my mind off of it as much as I can... -_- ... 2006 has sucked so far...but I look 4ward 2 the future.... hoping it will be better

oh... I'm so sorry..
I lost a uncle too, a 4 years ago,and his children was just 4 and 7 years old.. I know how you're feeling now..
But don't worry :D I bet the year will be better

Oh my, you guys have my sympathies and i understand how you feel :sad: .
When i just started boarding school one of my favourite aunts passed away. That time i was just settling in and i was about 14 that time and she was ill for a long time.

She and her sisters always took care of me since i was younger . and i can still remember how she looked that day i the hospital bed and how she suffered.

Besides that, my grandaunt's husband just passed away last year after my exams in my first year at uni :cry: .
I've lost so many relatives till it sometimes hurts when recalling memories shared when they were still around.

You know what <_< , you all here are very lucky that you still have someone ....Because when I grew up, I didn't have a family with me......I was left alone in the streets of D.C. by myself since I was very little. my foster mother once told me that my parents had died in an accident.....that's what she told me before she died too........She was all I had left. my grandfamily had died from mostly disaeses, my friends were victims of the Sept. 11 attack in the U.S,.......i lost a loved one that I went out with for seven years straight in a GUN accident....


:cry: :cry: ..I have nothing else to live for......

My aunt died from cancer last year. :cry: :cry: I miss her alot. But what was really bad was that, 6 months after she died, her son was killed in a horrific car accident. My cousin. His rib cage was pushed in, piercing his heart and organs. He was so young! :cry: :cry: Only 22, he had his whole life ahead of him. :cry: :cry: :cry:
Why did they have to die?

:cry: Awwwww i feel really sad for you Vanassa you have no family life or friend and a loved one oh my god i wish i could do something to help you! :cry:

:cry: But still i can't believe that you've been a victim of all your loved ones :cry:

Awww....I'm sorry everybody..... :sad:

:huggle:

Loss of loved ones can be very hard to get over.

Yes Saria you're right it does take like a month to get over your lost ones. :cry:
But we'll always know that they're watching us.
Personally a sad song abou a girl singer was going through terrible times so she could kill herself but she made it without killing herself so she made a song called
"I can make it through the rain"
As soon as i listened to that song i feel safe from harm and loved but my lost ones. :luv:

:hug: That person that you have lost may not be with you in body :cry:, but they will always be there with you in spirit :luv:. We all can't be like Cloud once was, mourning for the loss of his loved one, :aeris: , for the rest of his life and being depressed. like Aeris once said, we need to move on and be happy. not just for us, but for our deceased siblings. We need to be happy for their safe journey to the Promised Land.....

You know the song well actually music that reminds me of my loved ones is.....
Aerith's music!! that music is just so beautiful actually you know what i would like that music played at my funeral. :cry:

I've lost a couple of people in my life that were very important to me.

When I was about 3 or 4 years old, my uncle died on the couch next to me from a heart attack. All I remember was he was sitting up, watching television with me, then he just kind of...collapsed over on the headrest. I dont remember much after, because it took me a while to understand death when I was little. But I remember being very sad when I asked, "Is Uncle coming home for supper?" and my parents shook their heads..A year after that, my dog, Snoopy, died from something unknown (probably a sickness or something). I was devastated, because that pup was like my best friend. I remember he would howl whenever I cried, like he was crying with me.

I've also lost my great grandmother, wh died at age 97 from old age. She passed on Thanksgiving Day no less, too. I was pretty upset, because just the other day before she died, she told me that she would come and see me graduate at my 8th grade graduation, no matter what. She had a big smile on her face when she said it too. And the day after that, she passed on.. I know she was there in spirit, though. And its been about 3 years since she left us.

It's weird how death can just come so suddenly... almost scary in a sense.

I loved my boyfriend, Jonathon, more than anything in the world. He was 5 years older than me, but I really did love him. I guess fate was against us somehow.
There was kinda like a feud between our families. Our fathers were childhood rivals, and they hated each other. We'd make jokes that we were like Romeo and Juliet, but we tried our best to stay by each other.

But something happened.

I was there with him. We were driving along normally, then this truck bulldozed into us, running a red light. It ploughed into Jon's side, so I was safe. :cry:
He was in hospital for three whole days. The doctor said he was in a coma, and I actually thought he'd be alright in the end.
Well, on the last day, I went to his bedside and, you know, held his hand and tried talking to him.
Heh, I must sound soooo stupid.
And I dunno why, but I fell as if a part of me died with him. I felt the moment when he slipped away. :cray:
I sometimes blame myself for his death, because it was me who asked him to drive me to the mall. :cry:
But after Jon's death, our families stopped fighting for some reason. My dad came to an understanding with Jon's dad, comforting him and his family. We're all very close now. I guess Jonathon died with a good purpose. But still, I miss him alot. :(

I'll find you again one day, Romeo. I promise.

Well, i just feel bad for my boyfriend:wub:, he lost his dad...no, not died because of something, but he never saw his dad when he was 2. i'm sorry if it doesn't connect a bit to the topic, but he only has his mom now, and i feel bad for him. It seems like he lost someone already, physically, mentally and spiritually, his dad never visited him.:sad:

side note: Dayna, don't lose hope!

-sniffle- About a year or two ago, I lost my great Aunt, who was always like a second grandmother to me. She had cancer, and had been living with it for about 3 years, and had slowly gotten worse.

Thank god she had only just started being unmobile when she died, so she didnt suffer too bad. But it was really sad, because the day she died was the day that we had a whole family get together for her, and then...I was in the house, and my grandpa came out, and I knew...

The weird thing is, at first I smiled, and I feel horrible about it. But then, I was ushered outside, and went around the garage....

And completly broke down. I dont think I'd have ever felt so numb in my life. It was horrible...and at first, I didnt even want to go in and say goodbye, but I made myself..

It was horrible...

Yes........ It was a horrible day it was in the begging of May oN May 3rd 2006
My aunt passed away which was my grandmas sister and it was so sad at the funeral I cried forever and ever!

When I was liitle like around 4 my moms brothers wife died in a car accident but I am sure it was sad but i was sooooo little I didnt know what the hec was going on so I didnt cry I dont think! But those are the only ones in my family besides like great grandmas and granpas and like great great great and so on! so I guess only 2 people!~ :cry: